It's not uncommon for adults in the ‘Sandwich Generation’ to find themselves caring for their children and parents simultaneously. While there are many benefits to this situation, it can also pose several challenges to the caregiver’s health and finances. Here, we explore what's at stake and share strategies that may help.
Protecting Caregiver Health
Caregiving can be physically and emotionally demanding, and it can also affect financial health. Caregivers should make their own well-being a priority.
· Physical health – Providing care requires energy and stamina. Regular exercise, a balanced diet, and sufficient rest are important.
· Emotional health – A support network of friends, support groups, or professional counseling can help.
· Financial health – Reducing work hours or leaving a job to care for a parent can affect your finances. A financial professional can help you create a plan that accounts for reduced hours and income.
Managing Lost Wages While Caregiving
Caregiving often means lost wages. The following strategies may help offset the impact.
· Flexible work arrangements – Talk to your employer about flexible schedules, remote work, or job sharing. Eligible employees may also qualify for unpaid, job-protected leave under the Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA) to care for a parent with a serious health condition, and Arizona's earned paid sick time law generally allows workers to use sick time to care for family members.
· Caregiver support programs – Some programs provide financial support to family caregivers. In Arizona, the Arizona Long Term Care System (ALTCS) may allow eligible members to have certain family members paid as caregivers, and VA caregiver programs may offer support to caregivers of eligible veterans. Your local Area Agency on Aging can help identify options.
· Shared caregiving – Sharing duties with other family members or friends can reduce the impact on work.
Preparing Financially for Caregiving
Planning ahead can make caregiving more manageable.
· Build an emergency fund – Consider a reserve of three to six months of living expenses to help cover medical costs, home modifications, or time away from work.
· Review insurance – Review health coverage for everyone in the household, including parents' Medicare coverage. Medicare generally does not cover long-term custodial care, so long-term care insurance may be worth evaluating, though it is typically easier to obtain at younger ages and in good health. Consider disability insurance for family members who are still working.
· Review the budget regularly – Check whether the family budget is sustainable and accounts for potential emergencies.
· Organize legal documents – Make sure parents have an up-to-date will, durable financial power of attorney, and health care power of attorney, prepared with an estate planning attorney.
· Review tax considerations – Caregivers who provide more than half of a parent's support may be able to claim the parent as a dependent, which can open certain tax benefits. A tax professional can confirm eligibility.
Saving for Retirement While Caring for Family
Those caring for others often neglect saving for their retirement. Here are some tips to work toward future financial independence.
· Contribute regularly to retirement savings – No matter how small the amount, regular contributions can make a significant difference over time due to compounding interest.
· Diversify investments – Spreading investments across different asset classes can help manage risk.
· Consult a financial professional – They can help design a strategic plan to work toward short- and long-term financial goals.
Sandwich Generation FAQs
Can I get paid to care for a parent in Arizona?
Possibly. Arizona's ALTCS program may allow eligible members to have certain family members paid as caregivers, and VA programs may support caregivers of eligible veterans. Eligibility rules apply, and your local Area Agency on Aging can help you explore options.
Does Medicare pay for long-term care?
Medicare generally does not cover long-term custodial care, such as help with bathing, dressing, or eating. It may cover limited skilled nursing or rehabilitation under certain conditions.
If you're part of the Sandwich Generation, addressing these issues early can make a difference. A sound financial plan can benefit not only the caregiver but also their children and aging parents, and it may provide greater peace of mind for the whole family.
